Dildos are available online and in stores. In addition to sleek stainless steel, vibrant silicone, and glass in various shapes and sizes, there is much more to choose from. Your desire to explore your body through masturbation and orgasms may be the reason for purchasing one.
The first picture that comes to mind when thinking of a dildo is one of those giant, white, veiny penises made of silicon. Dildos aren’t just one kind, there are lots of varieties. Dildos are phallic objects that simulate penetration and can be used alone or with another person.
It is fairly straightforward to understand what dildos are. Other popular sex toys, such as vibrators, have all the fancy bells and whistles. Dildos don’t. A dildo is an artificial dick that looks much like one.
You can do so much with a dildo. Dildos don’t move by themselves like vibrators. The wonderful thing about dildos is that they come in shapes and sizes the human body never does, which can make your sex life even more exciting.
Learn everything you need to know about how to ride a dildo, whether you’re a dildo novice or a dildo enthusiast. Regardless of whether you use them alone or with your partner, you’ll soon have fun with these classic sex toys.
Getting Started
– Selecting the Right Dildo
Choosing the right dildo isn’t easy, there are so many shapes, sizes, and types of dildos out there. All that matters is that you choose one that suits your requirements and desires.
It makes sense to choose a glass, steel or wooden dildo if you prefer hard stimulation. A vibrating dildo is your best bet if you want extra sensation. Try a larger or inflatable dildo if you like the feeling of being stretched. According to a study conducted recently, most dildos sold resemble a man’s average genitalia, which suggests the average size is what most women want. The rabbit-style vibrator/dildo is a good choice for clitoral stimulation during penetration.
– Creating the right mood
It can be extremely helpful to change the mood of your room before sex by closing the blinds, turning down the lights, and lighting a few candles. You can say the same if you’re all by yourself. Dim the lights if it makes you feel better, light a candle and put on some sexy music. Be sure to lock the door so no one can barge in.
A towel might help you feel more comfortable letting go before you begin playing with your dildo or hitting your G Spot. Take a look at your favourite erotica story or book to get the party started. Make sure you don’t get any lube on them!
Whenever you use your Dildo for the first time, turn yourself on as you normally would (with some free erotic fiction, or some ethical queer porn). You have to get in the mood first because if you’re feeling awkward or distracted, it makes penetration harder – and less fun.
– Lubrication is the key
Take some lube if your natural lubrication is low. In addition to increasing pleasure and desire, lube also increases comfort and arousal.
Regardless of what type of sex toy you have, you will always need lubricant to penetrate it. Dildos are no exception. Most people find water-based lubricants useful in almost every case.
– Make Sure You Warm-Up
It might be a good idea to warm up with your dildo before playing with it. Manual stimulation might be involved along with some orgasms as well.
Get a little wild. A distraction or awkward feeling can make penetration uncomfortable. Consequently, making sure you are relaxed and aroused will ensure a more enjoyable and smooth first time with the toy.
Check out how the dildo feels when you rub it on your body before inserting it. It’s great for massaging and stimulating external genitalia like the vulva, labia, and anus. It’s like you’re teasing yourself here before settling in for the penetration. You should start slowly moving inside and out with the dildo once you begin to penetrate, adjusting to how it feels as you go along.
When using a dildo alone
It is a good idea to test this sex toy out on your own before using it with your partner. As a result, you’ll get a better idea of yourself and what you prefer.
Dildos are fantastic for solo sex. That’s right, you read it right. It will ease your self-consciousness and you can focus on how your faux penis feels without being distracted. Take the time to prepare and be in private before you begin.
– Take it slow, start slowly
Rub the dildo on your body to feel how it feels before inserting it. Massaging and arousing your genitalia with the dildo plays a large role in enhancing your experience. You can easily penetrate yourself by teasing yourself with the sex toy. Once you start penetrating with the toy, you must do so slowly. You should pay attention to the way it feels and how it differs from penetrating the penis with your fingers or a real one.
– Play with rhythm and speed
How’s the dildo settling in? Try pumping with varying speeds and rhythms now. One of the best things about sex toys is that they’ll do exactly what you want. The dildo won’t fatigue or cramp. Additionally, you can start and stop whenever you like.
You must keep an eye out for any difference between steadily slow and erratic movements. Find out what you enjoy and what is most beneficial for you. In the end, you’ll have to make mental notes about what you want to discuss.
– Know your limitations
Deep penetration can be uncomfortable or painful with a longer dildo. You might feel tempted to push that longer dildo nearly into or against the cervix if it is not fully inserted. If you feel pain, stop and go slow. When it comes to longer toys, make sure to hold them on the shaft instead of the base to adjust their length.
With a moderately long dildo, deeper penetration is possible, making it a pleasant experience. Play with different penetration angles, and you’ll find some spots are more fun than others. Get different feels of the penetration by trying different sex positions.
– Enhance clitoral stimulation
When women add clitoral stimulation to their play with a dildo, the penetration experience changes. Women usually enjoy simultaneous stimulation and penetration of the clitoral region. It takes some coordination, but it is worth the effort. When you play with your dildo, use the vibrator to stimulate your clitoral region.
Dildoing with a partner
Dildos can be used in a variety of ways with a partner. Rather than using the same dildo on your companion, choose to get a separate condom for each of you.
The Dildos are designed to go through any orifice. A dildo can penetrate vaginally, anally, or whatever, or even orally, as some people enjoy having a dildo in their mouth during solo sex.
Also, Dildos can be used for pegging, in which females or vulvas penetrate their male partners via a strap-on. For this purpose, it will be best if you pick a dildo that has a flared base and is compatible with a strap on.
Best techniques for dildo penetration
1. Double penetration
Double penetration is a popular fantasy, so why not try it? Double penetration can be achieved in four ways using a dildo.
– One dildo inserted vaginally and another anally.
– A dildo and a butt plug.
– A dildo and your fingers.
– Your man and a dildo.
Double penetration is a common technique in porn, and a lot of people experiment with it. Don’t be afraid to try it at home. A dildo and penis are either stuck in the same hole or both are inserted vaginally or anally. Pornography executives consider double penetration the highest possible risk. However, dildo users can try out double penetration safely when using lubricants and condoms. The one being penetrated should control and slow down the sex play.
Before you try it with your man (or men! ), it’s best to try it on your own first. It is vitally important to keep in mind that everything you insert anally before allowing it close to your vagina must be cleaned.
2. Bend over boyfriend
Dildo companies have created several products specifically aimed at heterosexual partners who are interested in exploring the male anatomy. When one performs Bend Over Boyfriend, he straps on the dildo and thrusts it at the anus of the male partner.
3. Deep thrusting
If you learn how to use a dildo, you’ll discover that its use is exactly as it sounds. When you thrust along the whole length of the vagina, you get intense stimulation, especially if the dildo is textured.
For intense thrusting, you need a toy with a strong core and one that won’t bend; it does not have to be rigid. However, too soft dildos can complicate this process. A dildo with deep ridges or bumps might be uncomfortable, so opt for one that is smoother and curved.
4. Shallow thrusting
Shallow thrusts have a huge effect on the clitoris and G-spot. Push in and out of the vagina slowly to increase the speed. This can be done on your back with the dominant hand holding the dildo, or on your belly with your feet flat on the floor. This will permit you to control the depth of the dildo. Due to its double stimulation, this technique is popular with women. The short thrusts can also stimulate the virginal walls, which is an incredible feeling.
You do not necessarily have to push deeply to gain the maximum benefit from your dildo masturbation session because most of the sensitive nerve endings reside in the first 1/3 of your vagina. You may even find that shorter and faster strokes are easier on your wrists since your dildo isn’t pounding your cervix as hard!
The fact that you can insert a dildo as long as you want doesn’t mean that you have to. Instead, use the length of the shaft to get a better grip on the dildo.
5. The G Spot
The G-spot is moulded by pushing/passing the sex toy along the vaginal centre and putting short and sharp bursts of pressure on it. While pulling outward, make sure you drag the dildo’s top across the G Spot. When you slide the dildo back inside, hold it up against the front of your vagina.
Keeping the same movement and being persistent is all you need to have squirting orgasms. Although finding the G-spot can be tricky, you can apply pressure with every thrust by positioning the dildo up against the bladder.
Your G Spot will receive intense stimulation when you milk it with your dildo using rigid toys made of glass, wood, or metal. Dildos also come in a special curve designed to stimulate the G Spot.
Stimulation of the prostate can also be done in a similar manner.
6. Always keep turning
Dildos come in many varieties; one of them is a juicer. It comes with a crank, and you turn it around after inserting it. It’s okay to move in this manner as long as there is no sharp angle that may cause discomfort.
Rotating your sex toy’s head is an excellent technique for using it. Penetrate normally. After hitting the G-spot, rotate the dildo to increase internal stimulation. Putting the sex toy in your crotch is an effective teaser and gets your pussy warmed up. The dildo can also be inserted at the entrance, rotated, then pushed in when you are ready.
7. Rock your dildo
Having a straight dildo doesn’t mean you can’t try something else. While you rock your dildo, you apply lots of pressure to your vagina (posterior wall) with the tip of the dildo. Whenever you push the dildo into the mattress, it should be pointing down towards the bed as you are lying on your back.
While you’ll feel a sensation similar to thrusting, you may also feel clitoral stimulation and extra stimulation around your vaginal opening. If possible, choose dildos made from silicone or curved toys intended for dual clitoral/vaginal stimulation when rocking.
8. Double stimulation (anal and clitoris)
Even though double stimulation can be tiresome and takes a lot of practice, it is a highly effective technique. While your other hand follows the dildo in your vagina or rides it, use the vibrator to stimulate your clitoris. As an alternative, you can stimulate the anus with a butt plug and push the dildo in with your free hand. You’re gonna love these two techniques. You’re gonna get a blended orgasm.
9. Temp-play
The next time you reach for a steel or glass dildo and your body goes into shock because it feels so cold, you may want to try warming it up first. A toy can be played with by changing its temperature. You might find dragging a cold dildo with your nipples enticing, while a warmer surface might make you more comfortable taking a larger toy.
You can do that by putting your toys under a hot or cold stream of water, or simply by running your tap. Temperature changes affect glass, steel, and ceramics the most. Playing with temperature is hard with silicone or wooden dildos.
Before inserting any warmed or cooled toy, check the temperature with your hand, and never heat or bake your toys. This is a sure way to get burns inside the vagina and on the vulva. As long as you use the techniques I teach in this guide, you can always just use your fingers instead of a dildo.
10. Threesome simulation or butt plug
A butt bug and a real dick make it easy to simulate a threesome on a dildo. As you ride the suction cup dildo and plug in the vibrating butt plug, you can blow your male partner.
A final thought
Riding a Dildo correctly is essential. If used properly, it can lead to breathtaking orgasms instead of a lifeless routine. The problem is that it can be difficult to utilize a sex toy you’ve never tried. By following the tips above, you will not only stay safe, but you will also embark on a wild erotic quest.
