Part 1: Anal orgasms are for straight men too
This guide to the male anal orgasm is the perfect combination of “how-to” and “what-for.” With short, to-the-point chapters that cover everything you need to know on this wildly orgasmic topic by yourself or with a partner.
Are you ready to be the man you were always meant to be? We’ve written this guide so that men everywhere can discover and get past their inhibitions regarding a topic that is most often seen as taboo.
A lot of men put off trying prostate milking because they’re afraid of the associations it brings; anal play with men does not make you gay. The prostate is the male G spot and yes it is located in the anus. We know that many straight men have grown up in a world where playing with their bums during sex is a big no. Ask yourself do you want to go through your entire life without exploring the secrets of the most orgasm inducing part your body has?
One of the best parts about prostate play is that you don’t need a partner or any special equipment to get started. Some men might prefer the access and control that a massager can give them, but it’s not necessary to have one for great prostate orgasms!
Why delay gratification? Prostate milking will have you cumming your brains out.
The prostate is located between the penis and the bladder. This gland is essential to male sexual functioning, secreting a fluid which helps to protect your sperm. Coincidentally, it is also intrinsically linked to the male orgasm, and prostate massage has to potential to produce incredibly strong orgasms in men.
Prostate milking is a great way to enjoy intense orgasms with your partner, and playfully control the orgasmic response in men who ejaculate.
The first step to learning about the prostate is to use toys designed for that very purpose. As you get more adventurous you’ll discover even greater pleasure with the variety of prostate stimulators that are at your disposal.
Some of the most popular prostate massagers on the market include the Aneros series, Jack Rabbit, and Vibrating Super Bulb. For those who don’t want to spend money on such a sex toy, there are a few household items that you could consider using instead: dildo, finger, bristle brush or toothbrush! And if you’re looking for edgier possibilities, how about trying remote control toys or even experimenting with electro-stimulators? Whatever your choice of stimulation may be – whether it’s mild or wild – all men should have a chance to explore their prostate.
Aren’t anal orgasms for gay men?
The Male Anal Orgasm is a powerful wave of pleasure that travels through your body at a rate of 120 to 150 beats per minute, or two to three times that of the regular male orgasm you are already acquainted with. The prostate orgasm is a series of vibrating spasms and undulating waves of intense pleasure that encourage energy flow in the body, causing it to feel revitalized and powerful. You will experience increased confidence, better brain function and get an overall feeling of well-being when you feel your anal G-Spot being milked. Prostate stimulation can provide feelings of pleasure you didn’t realise existed in the male body.
Prostate toys are tools that help you achieve this ultimate male orgasm. If anal sex isn’t your thing, it doesn’t matter. This isn’t about sexuality – it’s about getting past societal inhibitions to discover the truth of the male anal orgasm.
For many men, achieving a prostate orgasm is still shrouded in mystery. The stigma attached to the word “prostate” makes men reluctant to ask for what they really want: deep, penetrating anal stimulation of their prostate that will lead them to continuous orgasms and giant ejaculations. Prostate milking is a longer-lasting, more powerful orgasm that requires stamina and dedication.
In the 19th century women were not recognised as having the ability to orgasm and the Victorians didn’t officially recognise the existence of clitoral stimulation / female orgasms – it was not something ‘that polite women did’. This is a good parallel to the way society views the male anal orgasm today.
The truth is that most men can experience sexual pleasures that they never dreamed possible – all it takes is a willingness to experiment, educate yourself on how to do so, and then follow through with actionable steps.
A prostate orgasm is the biggest natural pleasure many men have never experienced.
The perception amongst most guys think that prostate milking involves “fucking” (or “pounding”, or “stomping”) a guy in the ass. The truth is, most men don’t even like getting fucked there. They need to be played with, not pounded. Prostate orgasms come from your anal G-spot, not your rectum – it’s actually up inside your ass. Instead of “straps-and-chair” prostate milking (which is often called “fucking a guy in the ass”), you should
The prostate is often referred to as the male G-Spot and it provides an even greater sexual experience. Stimulating the prostate gland will also have a more amazing effect on your orgasm.
Welcome to the world of anal play preparation. It’s not fun and it’s not always easy, but it’s an essential step to take if you want to keep things clean and avoid any nasty surprises. Even if you’re used to anal play, there are additional steps which are advisable for prostate play, so be sure to give this a thorough read.
A little knowledge goes a long way in preparing your ass for anal play. There are extra considerations to remember that don’t apply for vaginal play. You may be an expert ass player, but if you don’t take all the proper precautions in preparing your hole, you could be walking around with not only the potential for a really bad day, but super uncomfortable stitches or even blood poisoning.
The anus, if not kept clean and healthy, can be a real turn-off for many people who are new to the idea of anal sex. The question is: how do you go about making sure that your bum is perfectly clean before going up there?
Understanding your prostate is the key to a safe and pleasurable prostate massage. Learning how to clean your bottom is also important, as any dirt or poo on your bum will be transferred to your new toy. A thorough cleaning is necessary before starting a massage, and it’s helpful to do this first. Doing a “clean” bowel movement can help with this, as it clears out the lower part of your intestines and makes room for anything else you need to put up there. It also helps keep the inside of your rectum clean and sanitary.
Whether it’s making sure you have a nice, clean bottom hole for play or preparing to take all of the girth of a new play partner, this guide will help you clean up and make your ass ready.
Many men have problems which cause them to need anal cleansing, and men who have been taking antidepressants are 4 times more likely to have this problem. Men who experience these problems are advised to use a topical cream or babywipes to clean the anus instead of a traditional alcohol based douche, in order to reduce cases of bleeding or other types of discomfort.
Prostate play has been practiced for centuries, but only relatively recently have people come to learn of the various health benefits that prostate stimulation can provide. The prostate is an essential part of both male and female sex lives, as well as the avoidance of sexual devastation such as erectile dysfunction and premature ejaculation. Contrary to popular belief, your butt hole does not need to be squeaky clean for anal play; in fact, it would be impossible. There are some things you can do in order to minimise fecal matter coming out during pleasure play however, so let’s look at a few ground rules that will help you avoid those embarrassing moments!
Remember, anal sex is as much about playing with your ass as it is penetrating it. Your prostate—a walnut-sized organ that lies at the base of your bladder and produces fluid that mixes with semen to create ejaculate—is packed with nerve endings that don’t always respond best to direct pressure. Instead, you may find that stroking or massaging (with a vibrator, let’s say) those sensitive spots will make everything more pleasurable for you. Play together wrapped
Using a sex toy for prostate stimulation is an easy way to make your orgasms much more powerful, but it also comes with some other advantages you might not have expected. For starters, let’s look at the fact that prostate stimulation can often lead to multiple orgasms. This is true even if you don’t always ejaculate during these experiences. Additionally, this type of pleasure is relatively easy on the body when compared to other types of sexual activity, so many men can enjoy prostate play throughout their life even as they get older and past concerns about erectile dysfunction and stamina.
End of Part 1.
In Part 2 we will walk you through the toys we recommend for beginners and how to ease yourself into your first anal orgasm.