The best thing about having a great time in bed is how simple it is. If you have two or three, passionate, red-hot partners, you’re good to go.
The pleasures of sex are endless! Occasionally, though, it can be rather dull.
This is why it doesn’t hurt to seek out some electronic help now and then to take things even further. Sex toys are super effective, and they keep getting better.
There are all kinds of female sex toys out these days. They’re in the magazines you read and the shows you watch. We finally no longer deal with the misguided stereotype that sex toys are just for the lonely or hopeless. The way women talk about sexual pleasure and female orgasm has recently undergone a positive change.
The right sex toys can spice up your sex life, whether you’re masturbating solo or with a partner, especially if you’re having trouble reaching orgasm. Many women find it difficult to climax and have problems orgasming through vaginal contact alone.
Is using female sex toys normal?
More and more people now realize that sex toys aren’t meant to replace someone. Their purpose is to give you a greater sense of pleasure and to help you have more orgasmic experiences.
That’s a good thing because while the stigma attached to these toys is fading, the orgasm gap between men and women still exists. It is for this reason that female sex toys are essential.
The use of sex toys is a perfectly healthy pastime, and there is no need to be embarrassed. Women benefit greatly from masturbation and orgasm. Whether we’re looking to relieve stress or reduce the pain of menstruation, sexual toys are there to help.
With this guide, you’ll have no trouble getting the most out of your bedroom fun.
Here are some of the best sex toys on the market:
1. Dildo
In addition to being one of the most popular sex toys for women, the dildo is extremely versatile, which is part of the reason why it is so popular. Any penile penetration imitation that is vaguely phallic-shaped qualifies as a dildo.
Dildos are non-vibrating toys that penetrate the body. You can choose one that resembles an actual penis, or you can choose one that does not resemble an actual penis at all.
It is possible to have dildos of any length or size — ranging from two inches to gigantic models. There are also many different shapes to choose from. There are several types of dildo you can get, from large ones to mini ones, metal or glass ones to textured ones to even curved ones to target the g-spot directly. Many women enjoy dildos aimed at stimulating the g-spot and the vaginal area, but they can also choose to have an anal dildo that goes into the booty and activates the nerves there.
No rule says that all dildos look exactly like penises. Some of them look like ice crystals, candy canes, and other fancy designs.
Dildo play is enjoyed by individuals who enjoy being penetrated or appreciate feeling full in their vaginas and anus.
2. Clit sucker
If you want to get more orgasms, you should get a clitoral sucking vibrator. Essentially, these clit stimulation toys are designed to help women achieve an orgasm through clitoral stimulation.
Toys mimicking oral sex have also been created that use both suction and pulsations to create orgasm, not just vibrations. You can choose from a wide variety of clitoral toys and the best vibrator will differ depending on the features that you are looking for and how you plan to use it.
To make their gentle sucking, clit suction toys utilize air pressure. There’s no comparison between them and vibrators. For those who love oral sex, or when their partner curls their tongue around their clitoris, or for those who can’t stand vibrations, these can be satisfying.
Using a clit suction toy can sometimes make your clit sensitive, so start with it over your pants and apply some lube to the tip. Most super sensitive areas need to be warmed up before using a suction toy.
3. G-spot toys
G-spot toys feature a slight curve and an ergonomic bump that lets you exert a firm press on the G-spot (it does exist).
It’s recommended that you purchase the egg-on-a-stick toy as your first G-spot toy. These toys are ideal for starters since they can be used both inside and outside, for G-spot and A-spot play, and they are reasonably priced.
4. A-spot toys
In terms of the A-Spot, an erogenous region that lies a bit behind the G-Spot, A-spot stimulation toys are specifically designed for stimulation of this region. Usually, these toys are long, narrow versions of the G-spots.
5. Rabbit vibrators
Rabbit toys are a combination of a G-spot and an external vibrator. It consists of a rabbit-ear-shaped external component that vibrates the clitoris, while another attachment is inserted into the vagina to stimulate the G-spot. If you are into dual sensations or would prefer blended orgasms, then you will enjoy this item. It is preferable to purchase a toy that allows a separate setting for both legs since the G-spot and clitoris require different intensity settings.
6. Wand vibrators
There is probably no other type of sex toy as common as the vibrator, and when you hear the word you probably think of the Hitachi Magic Wand, which, as the name would suggest, has vibration capabilities.
A wand vibrator works at a higher RPM, so the vibrations are much stronger. They are ideal for anyone who appreciates an intense sensation, or who finds it difficult to induce deep arousal on their own without heightened stimulation.
Besides stimulating your genital region, you may also apply its vibration to your back and shoulders, turn it into a “teasing device”, or engage it in nipple play.
7. Metal and glass wands
Despite their similar looks to G- and A-spot toys, these are worth their separate category. A non-vibrating wand can be extremely helpful for those who experience discomfort or pain during penetration.
They’re frictionless, easy to insert, and a great first step towards penetration for people who have difficulty stretching. A glass or metal toy can also be warmed or cooled down, making it ideal for temperature play.
8. Butt plug
Numerous female sex toys aren’t only designed for the vagina and vulva. Over the past few years, butt plugs have risen in popularity as sex toys have gained prominence.
They come in a variety of sizes and shapes and were created to accentuate the feeling of fullness in the anus area. The butt plug can provide even more sensation during masturbation and partner play by tightening your sphincter muscles around it.
Butt plugs are also used by many users to get ready for anal sex. It relaxes and stretches the muscles, making it easier to enter the penis and larger objects. There are also vibrating butt plugs for extra stimulation, or tail butt plugs to immerse yourself in animal role-playing or for a bit of extra fun.
How does a butt plug differ from inserting a dildo into a butt? Dildos are made to be inserted in and taken out quickly, while butt plugs are made to be inserted and left in place for sustained satisfaction. Moreover, because butt plugs have flared bases, you can use them without having to wear a harness.
9. Anal beads
A set of anal beads can be a great option if you want to explore anal play but a butt plug seems overwhelming. It consists of a chain of interconnected spheres of varying sizes.
Beginners will be able to utilize all the benefits of these beads only having to insert them as far as they are comfortable with.
While butt plugs are typically inserted and left in place, anal beads replicate the sensation of the anal sphincter contracting and relaxing. A teasing bloop-bloop sensation is created when you insert the beads into your sphincter, and then it closes. As you orgasm, you can pull them out to create a more intense experience. Those who like them may think this is because they add more mass to their anals, and may therefore feel fuller.
The reason for this is the nerve endings along the opening of the anus are stimulated by anal beads. The entry of the beads and their removal is especially pleasurable, as this area contains plenty of nerve endings.
It also works well alone or with a partner in any type of play. It can make your orgasm feel far more intense if you slowly remove the beads during or before an orgasm.
Keeping in mind that the anus does not self-lubricate, you’ll want to use plenty of lubricants designed for toys.
10. Nipple clamps
Nipples are commonly overlooked by sex toy users as one of the body’s most erogenous regions. The reason behind that is that nipple clamps are generally painful rather than enjoyable. Although this can be true in some cases, it all depends on the clamp you use.
The nipple clamps restrict blood flow around the nipples by pinching them. They can cause some pain when tugged, which may be appealing to some, but the main benefit is the effect when they’re taken off.
Upon removal of the clamps, the blood returns to the nipple, triggering pleasure-inducing hormones. Nipples may become more sensitive to touches, licks, and pinches after removal. Those who are new to nipple clamps should pick a style with adjustable pressure so they can settle on the pressure they prefer. Several adjustable clamp styles are ideal for beginning users, including tweezer clamps, alligator clamps, and butterfly clamps.
11. Handcuffs
There are a few female sex toys that are specifically designed for use with a partner, in addition to the common varieties. A pair of handcuffs is a great starter toy for those who are beginning to experiment with bondage and sex toys.
The purpose of handcuffs is to attach two wrists or attach a wrist to another object, to restrict movement and the wearer’s ability to touch. These toys aim to interfere with the wearer’s movement and touch, heightening the rest of the body’s sensitivity. Lastly, it is a great way for a couple to experiment with dominant and submissive roles.
12. Other female sex toys
Although the above are a few of the hottest sex toys for women, there are still plenty more to choose from. You may want to consider a finger vibration or vibrating panty, or you can opt for kegel balls, also great for pelvis health. Ideally, these two last sex toys are fun in the company of a partner.
