Dream of owning a cock? What about being double penetrated? Would you like to be able to fill your holes by yourself? Want to enjoy strap-on or pegging sex?
Y’all, it’s time to make dildo a part of your drawer!
Who would have thought a sex toy could be used so creatively?
A lot of dildos are available in local and online stores. Glass in all shapes and sizes, sleek steel, and silicone in vibrant colours are just some of the options available. Your purchase might be a result of your excitement to set out on a new journey of orgasms and masturbation.
Approximately 6% of women experience orgasm regularly from penetration, making it necessary for many ladies to turn to sex toys for orgasm.
Getting the most out of your dildo requires that you learn how to use it properly. You might feel a bit intimidated when facing a dildo you’ve never used before. However, by sharing my knowledge and experiences you can unlock secret pleasures and experience hair-raising orgasms.
A dildo might just be the right tool for you if you have trouble imitating sexual behaviour with your G Spot, or you are just tired of your routine play sessions. Regardless, these techniques are sure to make dildo-enjoying more pleasurable, and there are a few tips to help make your dildo-enjoying sessions more rewarding.
Jump right in!
Dildos are fun for everyone!
Despite popular belief, dildos are not limited to lesbians of the cisgender gender.
Everyone can wear, receive, and enjoy Dildos, regardless of their gender or sexual orientation. You can enjoy certain sex acts or a certain sex toy without changing your sexuality or gender.
Why do we need dildos?
The dildo market is probably awash with a hundred different types, and I can think of just as many reasons why someone might want to own one or use it.
The following are just a few:
– To have an affirmative feeling about one’s sexuality or gender identity
– This allows penetration to occur in those situations where penetration would not by chance occur due to partner genital structures, erectile dysfunction, or relationship status
– To experiment with double penetration, independently or with a partner
– Method of enlarging an existing phallus
Get all steamy
You’re probably going to need to “warm-up” your pussy before you put the dildo inside it unless you’re super-horny. There is nothing wrong with warming up before the big game.
You can get your juices flowing by following these strategies:
– Rub the pussycat
Try massaging the outside of your pussy to stimulate your clitoris, increase your arousal, and better focus your attention on the vagina
– Touch yourself
Instead of diving right into your toy, slide your fingers into the slot slowly, allowing for a larger dildo.
– Bump up the lube
Make yourself feel playful by rubbing your pussy with lube or lubricating your finger and inserting it into your body.
Dildo play is harder for premenopausal women due to vaginal dryness. For women who don’t naturally have a way to lubricate their vagina, water-based lube is great! Made of natural ingredients, it does not have any harmful ingredients.
Favorite Dildo Orgasmic Techniques
Shallow Thrusts
G-spot and clitoris are stimulated by shallow thrusts. You should thrust in and out of your vagina slowly at first, then increase the speed.
My personal preference is for short, fast strokes. As I fuck myself into fast-paced bliss, I’m prone to move the toy through my body more rapidly, allowing my body to be overwhelmed by the intensity of the moment.
Shorter, faster strokes increase your chances of stimulating your G-spot. You don’t have to plunge deep into your vagina to roux the G-spot since it’s just a couple of inches away.
On all fours or your back is the best position for this. This will give you complete control over how far the dildo will extend.
These techniques are popular because you are getting double stimulation, as well as some short thrusts that stimulate your vaginal opening.
One disadvantage of fast strokes is that they can exhaust your hand. By switching between wrist and arm movements while lying down, you’ll last longer by stabilizing your muscles so you can push the dildo in and out.
Deep thrusting dildo play
Often, people think that deep thrusts are something you always do when using a dildo, and they aren’t so wrong either. Deep thrusts feel great!
You might find it more comfortable to use water-based lubricant if you like the idea of having a dildo thrust deeply into you. Use lube sparingly and keep your hands and the base of the toy lube-free to facilitate better grip. An extra towel or wipes should be kept nearby.
A deep thrust involves pushing the dildo into the body and drawing it back out again, slowing down at first then accelerating. The right motion stimulates your G-spot, A-spot and gets you on your way to achieving a g-spot orgasm.
The sensation of pressing your Dildo deep into your cervix is hot, but you may cause soreness and pain afterwards if you pound too hard. Using a less aggressive technique and slowing down is encouraged if you feel pain.
The toy must be angled correctly, not toward the bladder but the cervix. You might be slamming your bladder rather than your cervix if you feel a slight urge to pee. For deep thrusting motions, a firm or semi-firm dildo might be right for you.
It feels amazing to combine deep thrusts with shallow thrusts, which some people also like to do.
How to milk your G-Spot
If you’re looking to milk your G-spot, all you have to do is run the end of the dildo across the inside of your vagina and thrust enough to stimulate your G-spot.
Keeping the same motion through persistence leads to squirting orgasms. You can find your G-spot by angling your dildo upwards and applying force there each time you thrust.
It is located on the upper wall of your vase (on the side nearest to the stomach). It is approximately 2-3 inches long. It is a part of the clitoral complex (the clitoris runs deep within the body), which is known for being exceptionally sensitive.
Place your fingers inside your vagina and inhale, you might notice a certain sensation of pleasure at the G-spot when you perform the “come hither” motion. Discover it, let it into your heart, and know how it feels.
When you have located the G-spot, grab a rigid dildo (preferably bumpy and detailed) to gently “drag” it across the area to massage the G-spot. Firm dildos, such as those made from stainless steel or glass, work particularly well for G-spot.
A-spot stimulation
What do you know about the A-spot?
A-spot is a deep inner pleasure spot that can sometimes be considered the “female prostate” due to its similarity to the prostate gland in men.
The pleasure zone is situated 4-6 inches inside the vagina at the front, end more towards the stomach. It is capable of creating the deepest vaginal orgasms you’ve ever experienced.
A curved dildo is best for reaching this spot. If you want to “stroke” this deep pleasure spot, don’t hit it too hard (because the area is very close to the bladder). Massage it slowly and gently with your dildo.
Rotating your dildo
Doing nothing but thrust a dildo into your pussy is SO OLD-SCHOOL. What if we shake up things a bit? Insert the dildo in your pussy in the prime G-spot stimulation range, around 2-3 inches.
Keep the dildo at the same depth within your body as you slowly rotate it. The G-spot will be gently caressed and the inside of your pussy massaged.
A great way to use your dildo is to rotate it. Many women do this as well. It is one of the best teasers and will always get your pussy aroused. Insert the dildo, twisting at the entrance, and then thrusting it in as soon as you are ready.
Full up
Sometimes, we just want to feel like we’re stuffed full of a mega cock, which is fine.
The nerve endings that are most sensitive to touch are located in the first third of the vagina, but taking a big cock into the pussy has a strange psychological appeal to it. Can you tell me what to say?
Experiment with slowly pushing a large 6-8-inch dildo into your vagina, or you could leave your clitoris “plugged up” while you rub the pussy or play with a bullet vibrator.
Double stimulation (butt or clitoris)/ Double penetration
For the ultimate sensation of being filled up with cocks, many women dream about double penetration, where they get cocks in their ass and vagina at the same time. It sounds like fun!
A great technique that is becoming increasingly popular is double stimulation, although it is tiring and does require some practice.
You can stimulate your clitoris using your fingers or vibrator, and then use the other hand to shove the dildo into your clitoris, or, if your dildo has a suction cup, you can ride it easily.
You can use a butt plug to stimulate your butt and a free hand to thrust into the vagina. The two techniques are both enjoyable to me because they give me an experience of a blended orgasm, which I find extremely fulfilling.
Have you tried wearing a dildo in your pussy and wearing a buttplug? Another option would be to use an anal dildo instead of a butt plug.
Despite what Brokeback Mountain implies, the ass must have a flared base and be lubricated. The dildo, in its natural state, has no natural lubrication.
Do not take a Dildo directly from your ass and place it in your vagina without first thoroughly cleaning it. It is best to keep those two environments apart.
Butt plug (Threesome Simulation)
You can simulate the phenomenon of a threesome with the aid of a dildo, butt plug, and maybe an actual penis as well. When I blow my boyfriend I keep my vibrating butt plug in my ass and ride my suction cup dildo. Although technically a foursome, the game is still fun. Discover how you can simulate a threesome using only sex toys.
The rock’n’roll never stops!
Putting your dildo in and out all the time gets boring, so why not try rocking it back and forth inside you while keeping the depth roughly equivalent to your pussy?
The motion of rocking your dildo back and forth feels especially satisfying if you focus your movements towards the bottom wall of your vagina (the side closest to your behind).
This is the Rock ‘n Roll dildo technique… Anyway, I like it!
Anal dildo play
Don’t ignore the anus!
Women do not have a prostate, but they still have a lot of nerve endings in their anal tract, so they get a great feeling when a dildo slides past them.
I don’t wish to be gross, but you know how pooping can feel sometimes. That’s what it’s like, except it’s much more fun and intense. Before you play, you might want to consider anal douching.
Anal dildo play demands a lot of lube – for something extremely long-lasting, try coconut oil or oil-based lube like Vaseline. The silicone dildo would likely be more comfortable if it had a little flexibility.
My personal preference is to lie down on my side with my knees bent up toward my chest for the most comfortable anal dildo position. My hand is easily angled to insert the toy with a reasonable amount of force when I am in this position.
If you’re having trouble, try mounting a suction cup dildo on a hard floor, squatting on top of it and slowly sitting on it with your feet flat on the ground. You can use gravity to get the toy inside your butt, but be careful.
Fun is had by all during anal play. Anal pegging may be an option for your male partner as well!
Furthermore, as I have reiterated a hundred times, only use anal dildos with flared bases. A dildo can’t be squeezed out of your butt – so if you get it in, you’ll probably end up in the hospital.
Temperature play
For a little more sensation, you might want to try temperature play with a glass or stainless steel dildo.
If you place glass or steel dildos in a bowl of warm or cold water for a few minutes before you play them, you can cool them down or warm them up.
The tingling cool of a cold steel dildo is enjoyed by some ladies, while the feeling of a warm glass sex toy is enjoyed by others (like me).
The choice is entirely up to you, but hot and cold dildos let you experience dildos in entirely different ways.
Dildo’s top sex positions
For maximum enjoyment and comfortability, finding your favourite dildo sex position is essential. Instead of finding position specifics for every dildo, find the position that makes you feel most comfortable and gives you the most pleasure.
On All Fours
The best position to use this is if your dildo can be secured to your headboard like mine, or even if that position just provides you with stimulation.
The clitoris is easy to reach from this position, and it’s a good way to figure out your preferences for later practice.
On Your Back
Legs bent and standing upright in the air, thrust the dildo inside while lying on your back.
The dildo can also be inserted when you are lying on your side, though this makes your pussy a little tight, if you like the feeling of filling, you’ll find it quite satisfying.
Sitting (couch, chair, bed)
When seated upright with your legs slightly bent, you will experience a sensation of deep filling. In this position, you can easily reach your G-spot, and it’s a good position to be in if you have a partner who enjoys watching.
A better way to use your suction cup (positioning)
The suction cup is what makes the dildo so awesome because it allows the user to explore a lot more positions and provides greater flexibility.
Consider trying these places and positions:
1. Stand up dog-style
2. Sit on it while riding a chair
3. On the wall of your shower
4. On the glass bowl
5. On your bedroom headboard
6. Sitting it on the floor
7. Against the wall
Lastly,
Hopefully, this guide on how to use a Dildo was helpful to you! It’s okay to use a dildo in whichever way suits you as long as you’re having fun and staying safe. It’s impossible to prescribe one way to use a dildo for all women since every woman’s experience is unique.
The goal is to develop intimacy with your body, understand what makes you turn on, and explore some of the most potent sexual zones on the body. Let’s do it!
