A new sex toy may be intimidating, but you could miss out on lots of fun by not taking the plunge. However, you need to be careful not to rush in without researching first.
The experience can be riveting, yet frustrating as well. This is something I know from personal experience as I was in the same boat a few years ago. To be honest, I had no idea what kind of sex toy to buy. As a result, I purchased multiple first sex toys, before settling on one of my favourites.
No matter what kind of sex toy you’re looking for – from vibrators to dildos, whatever your preference, we’ve put together this handy guide, making things a lot easier for you.
1. Let’s face it: no one has time to read all the research. You must select what catches your fancy instead
Take a look at toys you are interested in and then read reviews about them. Finding out if a toy works for someone else is a great way to determine that it may work for you too.
There should be a lot of reviews, guides and ratings on the website of a reputable online sex toy retailer. Check them out to see what you like. Researching endlessly turns this into a stressful experience, this is supposed to be fun!
2. Don’t rush into things
Several great toys are available for beginners. It is important not to rush into choosing the first toy that you come across.
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Though a few classic toys are still popular, such as the rabbit vibrator, there is no all-inclusive, universal sex toy for everyone.
As a first toy, bullet vibes are ideal for women. Using them is easy and they’re compact. Depending on whether they have a cord or not, you can place them inside your vagina, or they can be used for clitoris stimulation. The prices are also affordable.
An excellent choice for male beginners is a masturbator. It may also be easier to start with a smaller product such as a love egg or cock ring with someone else.
3. Make sure the label reads “body-safe”
It is a general rule that materials that are safe for the body include nonporous silicone, wood, and glass. You can find lots of genuine body-safe toys out there, but there are also plenty of fakes. It is important to do a bit of research to ensure that the product is safe for your body.
4. The design does not need to look like a cock
That’s not to say you should avoid dicks or anything that looks like them. It’s fine. If they appeal to you, you can go ahead. However, if you prefer aesthetic sex toys not resembling that thingy, do try out those as well. Because they’re ergonomically designed, they’re often comfier.
5. Pairing sex toys make couples more compatible
Buying them together is a great idea! Be sure that both of you know what’s going on. List out what you want, build it up as you see fit, then see if you can come up with something.
It’s important to just enjoy yourself. You don’t have to allow negative thoughts about sex to hold you back from having fun and exploring your sexuality.
If you and your partner want to enhance your sexual experience or spice things up, try a vibrating couple’s cock ring. Try a couples kit for something a little different. They contain a range of sex items.
6. Buy some butt stuff
In addition to more intense orgasms, anal play can lead to a higher level of intimacy. Since only a thin membrane separates the vaginal and rectal cavities, it’s no wonder that this is an extremely stimulating area.
However, before you go ahead and do it with your partner, I suggest trying it out with toys first.
The best thing to use for beginner’s anal play is anal beads. Small, round, smooth beads, such as those made of silicone or plastic, are most commonly used in anal beads. They are connected balls of varying sizes that fit over the anus. Anal beads can be soft or firm, textured or smoother.
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Anal play is also more pleasurable with butt plugs. As their tapered head expands, it becomes bulbous before narrowing again to reach a broad base. A tapered design facilitates insertion, while a thin neck allows it to remain in place so as not to slide around inside.
Getting ready for anal sex is made easier with them. They stretch and relax your anus muscles. Begin with a narrow plug, and make sure it’s smooth without any bumps or ridges.
7. Use a good lubricant
Putting lube on toys always makes them more enjoyable.
Whether you’re a newbie or an expert, lube is perfect for any sex toy user. The friction is reduced, so it’s a more pleasant and fun ride.
A lubricant is either water-based, oil-based, or silicone-based.
The best lubricant to start with is water-based since they’re easy to apply, easily cleaned, and rarely irritate the skin. Besides being latex-friendly, water-based lubes can be used safely with any sex toy.
Fun is all you need!
The reason why sex toys are so awesome is that they’re made explicitly to provide pleasure and satisfaction.
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A multitude of hormones is released when you climax, causing a powerful rush of pleasure. Orgasms trigger the brain to calm the body down. The physiological benefits of having an orgasm are enormous for you and your partner.
It’s all about experimenting and having fun! If you’re going to buy your first sex toy, it should not only make you feel awesome but also fulfil your desires. In a sense, it’s simply a fascinating gift.