Cock rings, erection rings, C-rings, shaft rings, penis rings, pleasure rings, call them what you want, these devices have been instrumental in countless sexual encounters. Let’s give them their day in the sun.
It’s no wonder that cock rings rank among the top sex toys. You can use them with your partner, they can be cheap for everyone’s budget, and there are a variety of choices that you can enjoy.
How exactly do cock rings work? Is a vibrating penis ring the best out of all the manhood rings?
Despite their many useful properties, cock rings are stigmatized, even though they can be an extremely fun toy.
It’s the norm to use sex toys in the bedroom these days, so a cock ring is just another possibility – and shouldn’t be any more or less embarrassing than using a vibrator ( that shouldn’t be an issue).
What is a cock ring?
Cock rings are just what they sound like: their shape is like a ring around a penis or dildo. The ring is intended to squeeze the shaft or shaft and balls of the penis or dildo.
One might ask, “Why would anyone want that?!?”
For some people, this restriction is highly enjoyable. Also, it can increase the intensity of erections.
When an erection occurs, the blood vessels entering the penis expand, enlarging the penis, while the veins running away from the penis constrict, by enclosing as much blood as possible in the penis. A cock ring can add a second level of constriction to that vein action, resulting in even more blood collecting in the penis for an even harder climax.
In some cases, people with erectile dysfunction wear cock rings, although they should consult their doctors before trying it.
They come in several forms:
– Stretchy and soft rings
A good cock ring for beginners is one of these.
Generally speaking, basic cock rings and penis rings are fairly inexpensive and relatively simple to wear and use, but there are a lot of types to try. Beginner’s best toys are stretchy cock rings because they are the easiest, most straightforward to use, and the easiest to clean. They are made of soft plastic and are available in several different sizes so you can pick the right one for you, or use several at once if you wish.
– Cock and ball rings
It is possible to find stretchy rings at an affordable price that can be worn on both the cock and the balls. It is an excellent option for beginners.
– Adjustable cock rings
These products have fasteners such as velcro, lasso adjusters, or Velcro straps to provide an adjustable fit.
Others enjoy the comfort of an adjustable ring that wraps around the testicles and the penis and can be customized and placed according to their tastes.
– Vibrating cock rings
They have a vibrating device attached. While they may feel good for men, these products are intended to stimulate the clitoral region during sexual activity.
Vibrating cock rings are very popular among couples with one partner having a vulva, while the other has a penis because the miniature bullet-shaped vibrator also stimulates the clitoris of the vagina.
All the fun is in experimenting, and one of the best ways to do that is to start small and simple, and then work your way up to more elaborate vibrating rings.
– Solid cock rings
You should only use these rings if you have extensive experience. But you might want to stay away from them even then. If metal cock rings are worn too long, fit poorly, or get stuck, they pose a threat of strangulation.
– App-controlled vibrating cock ring
If you’d like something sexier and techier, there are vibrating cock rings controlled by an app. The perineum is stimulated by wearing these garments around the penis and testicles. Waterproof, they come with more than ten vibration modes to provide different sensations, and they are made of high-grade silicone.
How do cock rings work?
As a dildo, a cock ring can be used by anyone, but for those with penises, they also prolong erections by decreasing blood flow.
An erection that feels harder and lasts longer is a result of cock rings stopping blood from returning to the penis.
Moreover, this could also extend the duration of penetrative sex.
During sexual arousal, blood flows to penis tissue and leads to an erection. In response to a decrease in arousal (as the result of an orgasm, a problem with the genital system, or an unexpected interruption), blood drains from the penis.
Taking cock rings around the base of the penis will prevent blood from flowing back, extending the length of boners and making them feel much harder.
Generally, you shouldn’t wear rings for long periods so that you do not choke off circulation (this also applies to nipple clamps). During penetrative vaginal sex, vibrators attached to rings are sometimes positioned in line with the clitoris.
Here are some tips to help you get the most out of your cock ring:
Use a simple, stretchy cock ring
A silicone cock ring is easy to remove, easy to clean, and flexible, helping beginners get started. You can indeed buy cock rings that are made of stainless steel or metal, but I would only consider these for individuals more experienced with these toys.
If you’re just starting, you should opt for adjustable rings since they allow you or your partner to adjust how tight or lose the ring is.
Make sure the cock ring fits properly
Rings around the crotch and penis should fit snugly to restrict blood flow, but they should not feel uncomfortable. The cock ring should be slipped down to the base of the penis while it is flaccid if it is made of a rigid material. You can place adjustable or stretchy cock rings on the penis either when it’s hard or when it’s erect. Take the ring off if it hurts at any time.
Test the cock ring
A cock ring should be tested out before being used during sex. In theory, cock rings restrict blood flow and accentuate veins in the penis and give the shaft a slightly enlarged appearance.
When you see the penis looks darker than usual or if you’re experiencing discomfort, take it off. The general rule is to take off the rings after half an hour and wait until blood flow has returned to normal before doing it again.
The ring is too tight if you notice the visible narrowing of your penis where the cock ring is located, or if it has a very red or blue tint to it. You should remove the ring at once. Consider finding a ring that is larger and made of a softer, stretchier material.
Get lubricated
If you use sex toys or cock rings, I strongly recommend lube. Make sure the cock ring has a bit of lube on it before putting it on. The penis or dildo will glide down more easily this way.
With silicone cock rings, don’t use silicone lube. The toy can be damaged and corroded by it. The easiest way to avoid spending a lot of money on new sex toys is to keep this rule in mind.
Using condoms with oil-based lubricants is a no-no, too. When it comes to lube, water-based lube is easier to deal with.
Position the ring on a flaccid or semi-erect penis
You don’t need to worry about this if you’re experimenting with using a cock ring with a dildo. If the penis is erect, do not attempt to push a cock ring. The ring may be too tight to allow that to happen, even with lube. When the penis is flaccid or semi-erect, the ring will typically be easier to slide down the shaft. It might take a bit of trial and error to figure out what works best for you.
Next, you will need to decide how you want to position the cock ring since it can either be placed at the base of the penis or around its shaft and balls. Beginners should stick with the penis base. The ring is easiest to put on this way, and it reduces the risk of hurting those delicate testicles.
Conversely, if you’re using a condom, the cock ring will have a bit of space between it and the rubber rim, which can prevent it from sliding around too much and pushing it up.
Make sure you do so carefully when levelling up and covering someone’s balls and shaft. You can stretch the ring as far as possible without it snapping, then place one testicle at a time through it as you go all the way down the shaft. In this kind of placement, adjustable rings work well since the testicles can easily pass through them due to their ability to be sized differently. In either case, it might be easier for the wearer of the ring to complete this task themselves.
It should feel snug, but it shouldn’t be uncomfortable. An overly tight ring can cause pain, numbness, or dramatic skin colour changes (such as turning bright red or purple). If any of the feelings associated with the ring seem uncomfortable, encourage your partner to speak freely with you. They should not act individually at this point.
Explore some of the best positions for cock ring sex
One of the benefits of using a cock ring in a couple with a vulva is that the person on top will get the most of the vibrations. As the clitoris is easily accessible in this position, the vibrator can stimulate it as easily as possible.
Leaving a cock ring on a penis too long is a bad idea
According to industry standards, you should not keep a cock ring longer than 20 to 30 minutes. Short bursts of blood flow restriction are usually not harmful, but prolonged use can be painful, like having your finger wrapped with a rubber band.
It is possible to damage tissues by restricting circulation for too long to the penis, but as long as users follow the instructions and listen to their bodies, this shouldn’t be an issue.
Gentleness is crucial when removing a cock ring. To help it slide off more easily, you may need to apply more lube. As with the ring placement, the person wearing it might find it easier to handle this part.
